Hi guys! Uri kuzviita sei?
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Saka kuti ndivaraidze pfungwa dzangu, kana ariwo kuipa kwakaita mbambaira yangu, zvingaite sei kune dzimwe nyika dzinosangana nechinhu chimwe chete, asi dzine vanhu vakawanda, kunyanya china. Uye chii chiri kuitika mupfungwa dzedu kuti tinogara tichiita izvi, pasina kukundikana?
Saka iyi positi ingori tsvakiridzo yangu mudiki pane zviri kuitika nechiitiko.
Vanhu, sezvaungave waona, vanogara vachifamba. Kungave kushanda, chikoro, kana - kana iwe uri chero seni - kune sofa yekushuvira kwemaawa matatu TikTok mupumburu, kufamba ndiko hunhu hwedu hwekutanga.
Asi dzimwe nguva, isu tinotora ichi "chinofamba" chinhu kusvika pari zvino zvekuti zvinoita sekunge vanhu vafunga pamwe chete kuita boka rekuti hapana anogona kudzoka.
Pinda muGore Idzva reLunar.
Fungidzira izvi: 1.4 bhiriyoni vanhu vese vakatarisana uye vachienda, "Unozivei? Ndave kuenda kumba." Uye kwete kumba chete, asi munhu wese akasarudza kuzviita panguva imwe chete . Saka kamwe kamwe, ndege yega yega, chitima, mota, uye mudhudhudhu zvinoiswa mujaho remhirizhonga relay. Uye mugumisiro wacho? Kutama kukuru kwegore negore munhoroondo yekusingaperi .
China ine zita rayo — chunyun (春运). Ihwo hupengo hwekufamba kwemazuva makumi mana uko vanhu vanozvirovera muzvitima senge sardines kana kugara mumigwagwa mikuru zvekuti vanokwanisa kuve nemakodhi avo eposvo. Asi heino kubata-haisi China chete. Vietnam ine Tết Nguyên Đán, South Korea iri mairi neSeollal, uye Malaysia haina kurasikirwa.
Hakusi kungofamba. Zvakafanana nekwaya yetsika—kunze kwokuti paunoteerera, inongova ruzha rwevanhu vanopopoterana muzviteshi zvemabhazi, vachiedza kuti vasarasikirwa nomukwende wavo.
Zvakadaro, iwe unofanirwa kushamisika: sei iyi yakave iyo World Cup yekuenda kumba? Nei hafu yenyika ichimbomira pahupenyu hwayo kuti ipinde muzvitima zvakazara vanhu kana kugara mumotokari “yakamira” pane “mukufamba”?
Zvose izvi zvinondivhiringa pfungwa, uye handisi kana ndini ndakavharirwa mumotokari dzemaawa gumi nematatu. Kuti tinyatsoinzwisisa, kunyange zvakadaro, tinofanira kuchera zvakadzama.
Nekuti izvi hazvisi zvekugadzirisa chete - ndezve vanhu. Zviri pamusoro peichi chekare, chakadzika midzi chido chekudzokera kune vanhu vanonyanya kukosha.
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Kana ndikafunga nezvekutama kwevanhu vakawanda panguva yezviitiko zvakaita seChunyun yekuChina kana Tết muVietnam, zvinondiita kuti ndive nemubvunzo kana ndiri kurota kana kungorembera zvakanyanya. Ndinoreva kuti, hatisi kutaura nezvekuenda kuchitoro kunotenga mukaka kana kungotyaira dhorobha. Aiwa, tiri kutaura nezvekutama kwevanhu kunoita sekunge mumwe munhu auya nazvo mushure memapaini mashoma akawandisa.
MABIRIONI MATATU nzendo.
Wakamboedza kubhuka ndege panguva yezororo here? Zvakafanana nokupinda murotari inoodza mwoyo zvikuru pasi rose, apo mubairo mukuru uri chigaro mundege isina kunonotswa, isina kuwandisa, kana kuti kuendeswa kune imwe nzvimbo yausingatombozivi kuti iripo.
MuVietnam, panguva yeTết, nhandare dzendege dzakaita seTan Son Nhat (HCMC) dzinobata ndege dze900 pazuva. Harisi zuva rakabatikana pahofisi, rakafanana nekurovera guta rose musutukesi uye uchitarisira kuti haizoputika. Neimwe nzira, zvakadaro, zvese zvinodzika pasina airport ichingopisa moto.
Zvino, fungidzira uchiwedzera nyonganyonga kusvika nzendo dzinosvika mabhiriyoni matatu mumazuva makumi mana. Ini handikwanise kuronga mabiko echisvusvuro ndisina kushanduka kuita dhiri rekushushikana, saka chokwadi chekuti chero munhu anodhonza izvi ndezvemashiripiti. Zvakafanana nekuona boka revanhu vachijuja macheni pavanenge vakatasva bhasikoro—uye vose vari kuzviita panguva imwe chete.
Ndege dzinomhanya pa95% -100% kugona, uye kana uri mumwe weavo vatengi venguva yekupedzisira, rombo rakanaka. Une sarudzo mbiri: ungave uri kupa hupenyu hwako mari yetikiti kana kuti uri kugara kumba, uchidya ma noodles pakarepo uye uchinetseka kuti chii chakashata muhupenyu.
Munguva yeChunyun, China inowedzera zvinopfuura chiuru zvezvitima zvekumhanya zvakanyanya kunetiweki yayo yechitima. Izvo, hongu, zvinoita sezvakawanda. Asi zvinongokwana kuti iwe urasikike uchitsvaga zvitima zvako, zvisingakwane kutakura vanhu vese ivavo.
Fungidzira uchiedza kufamba pane imwe yezviteshi zvezvitima panguva yeGore Idzva reLunar. Kune vanhu vanotakura mabhegi, vachishevedzera pamusoro pemagudzanzwi mumitauro mitatu, uye kazhinji vanoita sekunge vanga vakamuka kubvira 1987.
Asi neimwe nzira, inoshanda. Vanhu vanosvika kwavari kuenda—kunyanya nenguva, kazhinji kwete kuchekwa-chekwa. Zvakafanana nevanhu vanongokwenya musoro vachiti, “Ehe, uku kupenga, asi ngatirambei tichienda.”
Inyonganiso, chokwadi, asiwo mhando yekunakidza.
Ndakawana chishandiso ichi cheBaidu Mepu chakagadzirwa kuteedzera-chaiyo-nguva yekufamba kuyerera panguva yeChunyun, uye yakanaka uye inotyisa. Maguta makuru akaita seBeijing, Shanghai, neGuangzhou anoshanduka kuita aya anopenya, anopuruzira mabhururu ekufamba, senge nyuchi huru ine kumwe kwakakosha kuve.
Paunobvisa kunze, zvinoita sekunge wakatarisa hofori, yakarongeka-yakarongeka boka revanhu, mumwe nemumwe aine chinangwa chimwe chete: dzokera kumba. Hapana nguva yekuona nzvimbo, kungosvika kumba chaiko.
Uye hechino chinhu chinoputitsa pfungwa dzangu nguva dzese. Pasinei nokupenga kwose—ndege dzakapotsa, masutukezi akazara, mitsetse isingamboperi—nenzira yakati, zvose zvinoshanda. Vanhu vanosvika kumba. Kwete nguva dzose zvakanaka, kwete munhu wese, asi zvakakwana kuti ufunge,
"Vakazvibvisa sei?"
kufambisa bhiriyoni remupunga kune dambudziko rakakwana, fungidzira kana tsanga dzacho dzichiremawo 60kg imwe neimwe, pamwe ne10kg yekutakura mitoro zvishoma.
Zvakaoma, zvekufambisa mukati memazuva ano mutambo wekuonana zvizere. Une magokora ari kubhururuka, vanhu vachigumburana, uye apo neapo acrobatic anosvetuka pamusoro pemabhegi kuti atore nzvimbo yavo mumutsara. Uye pakati pezvose izvi? Ndiri pano—sutukesi ine urombo, ndiri kukava, kuzvuzvurudzwa, uye—pasina jee—kusiyiwa kumashure kwemaminiti gumi akasimba. Asi kunyangwe zvikashata sei, ndinogara ndichiwana munhu wangu zvakare.
Uye usatomboita kuti nditange panjodzi yetiketi yepamhepo. Kana iwe uchifunga kuti zviteshi zvechitima zvine bongozozo, ingofungidzira mamirioni avanhu vakatarisa panharembozha dzavo, vachidzvanya maapplication akaita se12306.cn, vese vachiedza kubata zvigaro zvakakosha zvakafanana. Zvakafanana nedhijitari Nzara Mitambo, asi neWi-Fi yakaipisisa.
Zvakafanana nekuona nyika yese vhezheni yeThe Hunger Games, kunze kwevechiri kuyaruka vanopfuga uta, vabereki vanotya vanongoda tikiti rekumira apo mwana wavo achipopotera mhondi ine ropa kumashure.
Hazvisi zvitima chete, zvakadaro. Nhandare dzendege dzinopinda mumhirizhonga, dzichikwidza 15-20% dzimwe ndege kubata kupenga. Uye fungidzira kuti ndege dzese dziri kuenda kupi? Madiki, hapana kwese kwese uko vanhu vanopedza gore rese vachinyepedzera kunge asipo — kusvika zvino, apo munhu wese anoerekana ashuwira kudzoka ikoko kuti adye madhiri emumba uku achinzvenga mibvunzo nezvehupenyu hwavo hwerudo uye mihoro yepamwedzi.
Kana zviri zvitima zvinomhanya zvikuru? China ine 40,000 makiromita akawandisa, inofamba ne300 km/h. Izvo zvinokurumidza kuita kuti nzeve dzako dzinzwe sekunge dziri kuita zvadzo, asi sezviri pachena hadzina kukurumidza zvakakwana kune vanhu vanofunga kunonoka kwemaminetsi maviri ndiyo apocalypse.
Chitima chepamusoro chakacheka nguva dzekufamba ne70%, asi vanhu vanoti "maita basa"? Nah. Vakabatikana vachichema kuti zvigaro zvekumashure hazvigadzike zvakakwana pakurara kwavo kwakakosha .
Hechino chinhu: tekinoroji iri kunyatso edza nepainogona napo kushandura iyi yakakura mess kuita diki diki. Kunyangwe ichingori yekuvandudza ma nooks uye crannies, tora nharembozha seWeChat neAlipay, semuenzaniso.
Vanorega vanhu vachitenga matikiti, kuongorora maQR makodhi, uye kunyange kuita nharo dzedivi rimwe chete nevatengi vebasa bots vasina hanya nematambudziko ako — zvese kubva mukunyaradza kwemasofa avo. Zvakafanana nekuva nemubatsiri wekufamba wega, kunze kwekunge mubatsiri asingaoneki, haana manzwiro, uye haabatsiri zvachose pakugadzirisa matambudziko ako chaiwo.
Mega-zviteshi zvino inoshandisa AI-based crowd management system, inova inongori makomputa anoudza vanhu pekumira kuti vasaite netsaona kukonzeresa traffic yevanhu. Zvakafanana nemutambo wepamberi wemacheya emimhanzi, asi uine mimhanzi shoma uye kushushikana kwakawanda. Kutendeseka, ndicho chinhu chepedyo kune huroyi kubva panguva iyo Harry Potter akakunda Voldemort nekufunga zvakanyanya nezve rudo.
Uye ma luggage scanners? Vave otomatiki izvozvi, izvo zvakanaka nekuti hapana chinoti "Ndinoda kunyatsoshanda" sekuva nerobhoti mutongi kana sutukesi yako izere nembatya kana contraband mooncake. Ivo vanotova nema drones achibhururuka achitenderedza migwagwa mikuru, achitarisa traffic. Drones! Zvinhu zvataimbofunga kuti ndezvemandorokwati chete uye vanhu vanotora mabhaisikopo emitambo yakanyanyisa ndivo vave mapurisa emuchadenga.
Saka, hapana chinhu chisina mutengo, uye ndizvo zviri kuvaka giant system yezvifambiso zvekufambisa. Kwete chete mune zvemari, iyo inoumbwa, asiwo zvakatipoteredza, izvo chaizvo chaizvo.
Iyo Lunar New Year kufamba mhirizhonga haingori nezve vanhu vachiedza kudzokera kumba. Ah kwete, ndezvekukonzeresa mhirizhonga yezvakatipoteredza uye kutambanudza zvivakwa senge bhendi rerabha riri padanho rekubvuta.
Chekutanga, kana 3 bhiriyoni vanhu vakasarudza kufamba panguva imwe chete, unenge uchida zvitima zvakawanda, ndege, uye mota. Uye zvinhu izvozvo zvinoda simba. Zvakawanda. Zvinoreva kuti matani ecarbon emissions. Zvitima zviri nani pane ndege, asi zvakangofanana nekutaura, "Zvakanaka, ndadya saladhi yemasikati, saka zvakanaka kana ndine pizza yekudya kwemanheru." Simba rinodiwa rinopfuura nepadenga, uye pasi rinofanirwa kutsungirira.
Zvadaro pane kusvibiswa kwemhepo . Dzimwe mota mumugwagwa? Check. Dzimwe ndege dziri mudenga? Check. Zvitima zvakawanda zviri kurira here? Tarisa kaviri. Zvikuru, kana iwe uri padyo nechiito, uri kufema utsi hwakakwana hunofemerwa nefekitari yemaindasitiri. Chinhu chakanaka chete ndechokuti kusvibiswa hakusi iwe chete; munhu wese anowana kuravira kwayo. Tose tinotambura pamwe chete.
Parizvino, Ho Chi Minh Guta neHanoi vari kukwikwidza munhangemutange yemarathon kuti vaone kuti ndiani angave nemweya wakashata, uye, kungwarira, vari vaviri vari kukunda. Iyo smog yakaipa zvekuti zvinoita sekunge mumwe munhu aisa sepia sefa kuhupenyu chaihwo.
Nyanzvi dzinopomera kuburitswa kwemotokari, guruva rekuvaka, uye neapo neapo moto wemidhudhudhu yekare, asi kutaura chokwadi, zvinoita sekunge mhepo pachayo yafunga kuenda pamudyandigere. Vanhu vari kufamba vakapfeka masiki dzakakora zvekuti vanoita kunge vari kugadzirira mishoni yemwedzi, ingangove iri pfungwa iri nani kupihwa mamiriro aripo epanyika.
Uye zvakare, nekuti chinhu chose idambudziko rekugadzirisa zvinhu, vanowedzera zvimwe zvinhu zvenguva pfupi-zvitima zvekuwedzera, mabhazi, zviteshi - kuyedza kugadzirisa nekukanganisa. Zvakaita sekunge vaona kuti, "Ah, isu tine nyaya hombe pano," uye ndokungosundira zvimwe zvinhu zvishoma mumusanganiswa kuti ive nechokwadi chekuti haupunzike kuita murwi mukuru wevafambi.
Saka, hongu, icircus yakakwana, asi neimwe nzira, zvese zvinoshanda. Kunge. Kwete zvakakwana, asi zvakakwana kukuita kuti ushamisike kuti isu tinokwanisa sei kusapwanya zvese zvese gore rega. Chunyun - mhirizhonga, kupenga, uye ndicho chinhu chinoita kuti ufunge nezvesarudzo dzehupenyu hwako iwe wakanamatira mumaawa gumi nematatu.
Asi hechino chinhu: zvisinei kuti tekinoroji yacho inosvika sei, chunyun ichiri kuguma yave njodzi ine mbiri, inosekesa. Matikiti anowedzera kuwandisa, kunonoka kunoitika, uye dzimwe nguva tsaona isinganzwisisike inoshandura hurongwa hwese kuita chikamu che "Chii Chingangotadza?"
Kuedza kurongedza chunyun kwakafanana nekuyedza kuronga zana makuru emimhanzi panguva imwe chete, asi panzvimbo yezvibatiso zvemwenje wese anenge aripo ari kudhonza masutukezi matatu, nhanho dziri kufamba dzakatarisana, uye varongi havawanikwe.
Ndiko kupenga chaiko. Zvinopedza simba. Uye neimwe nzira, vanhu vanoigadzirira gore rega rega, sezvipfukuto kuenda kumurazvo usingaite.
Kana chunyun iri muyedzo wekupedzisira wekuda kwevanhu kuti vabatane, saka zvakare iri masterclass mukutambura. Hazvisi zvekungofamba kubva paPoint A kusvika paPoindi B; zvaita sePoint A irikuda kukuuraya apa Point B irikuseka nechekure. Nhanho yega yega yerwendo inonzwa sekunge hupenyu pachahwo huri kukuseka-chete hausi kusekesa, uye haugone kusiya.
Uye zvakadaro, mamiriyoni evanhu anoda kuita izvi gore negore. Sei? Nokuti pakuguma kwazvo—kana kuti zvimwe panoperera mukoto wechitima—pane chimwe chinhu chakavamirira. Chinhu chemashiripiti. Chinhu chakakodzera nyonganiso yese. Kumba. Izvo zvinonyanya kufanana nekwaunochengeta yako Wi-Fi router asi ine yakawedzera manzwiro mukwege.
Ngatitaure nezvemitengo, zvakadaro, nekuti wow . Unombofunga here kuti ndege yeKisimusi inodhura? Cute. Zvakafanana netiketi remwana rekutanga kudhurika zvichienzaniswa nechunyun. Mitengo iyi haingokwire — inokwira zvine mutsindo, kunge vari kuyedza kujoina International Space Station. Dai mitengo yematikiti ine hunhu, vaigona kupfeka monocle uye kunwa champagne, vachititarisa pasi kubva padanho ravo repamusoro rezvemari.
Chati iri pano-ine mitsetse pairi. Mutsetse webhuruu ndiwo "Mutengo Wechokwadi," uye tsvuku ndiyo "Average Daily Price." Zvinonzwika zvinofinha, handizvo here? Asi mirira, nokuti muna February, chimwe chinhu chinoitika. Mutsara mutsvuku unongoerekana wapfura, seuri kuedza kusvika kumwedzi.
Sei? Gore Idzva reLunar, zviri pachena. Wese munhu arikuda kusvika kumba, uye vendege vanopindura nekufunga kuti, “Ngativabhadharise nepose patinogona napo. Vachabhadhara zvakadaro.” Uye vari kupenga chaiko.
Asi chati ichi? Haitauri nyaya yese. Chokwadi, inoratidza mitengo ichikwira nekudzika, asi hairatidze zvinorehwa nemitengo iyoyo. Nekuti kuseri kwese kwepike mugirafu kune munhu anofunga, ini ndichatengesa itsvo yangu kana zvichireva kuti ndinogona kuwana tikiti.
Kana zvigaro zvisipo, vanhu havangoregi; vanochinja. Vanotenga matikiti akamira chete. Hongu, icho chinhu - matikiti akamira-chete, asi muchitima, kana bhazi. Unogona kuchovha, asi chete kana uchitambura.
Uye uchatambura iwe. Fungidzira uchitsikirirwa mumotokari yechitima yakadikitira ine zero yemunhu nzvimbo. Nzvimbo yemunhu haipo pano — yakatsiviwa nehapwa remumwe munhu. Hapana pekugara, hapana pekuzendamira, uye pano neapo, kamunhuwi kanoita kuti ufunge kuti chitima chiri kutakura zvipfuyo here. Unoedza kuramba wakadzikama, asi chitima chiri kuzununguka, uri kuzununguka, uye pakupedzisira, kutenda kwako muvanhu kunozunungukawo.
Kozotiwo kunonokerwa. Oo, kunonoka. Kana iwe uine rombo rakanaka, yako yekufambisa yesarudzo inongononoka. Kana usina rombo rakanaka, unonzwa sekunge wakura makore gumi wakazvimirira. Fungidzira mazana evanhu vakamira pachikuva kuchitonhora, vachibvunza chinyararire zvisarudzo zvavo zvoupenyu. Zvakafanana nechirongwa chekurapa, kunze kwekunge pasina ari kutaura nekuti atadza kutaura.
Kune vanhu vazhinji, izvi hazvisi zvekusarudza. Haisi kunakidzwa kwezororo; irworwo rwoupenyu. Kumhuri dzekumaruwa, kazhinji ndiyo imwe nguva yegore apo munhu wese anoungana. Vabereki, vana, vanasekuru - uku ndiko kusangana kwavo zvakare.
Saka vanotsungirira mitengo yematikiti, kusagadzikana, kunonoka, zvese kuti vawane mukana wekuve nevanhu vavanoda. Kana kusiri kuzvipira, handizivi kuti chii.
Zvakafanana neKufamba Vakafa, asi panzvimbo yehuropi, munhu wese anotevera matikiti echitima. Wedzera vashoma vanochema vacheche, bvisa Norman Reedus, uye icho chunyun.
Vesainzi vakatodzidza kupenga uku. Sezviri pachena, kufamba kwemwaka wepamusoro i "stress buffet." 3 Tikugashirei kuresitorendi yedu, tora kuremerwa kweaya materminal akazara vanhu, kunonoka kusingaperi, uye mufaro wekurara wakatwasuka, wakatsvikinyidzana pakati pasekuru naambuya.
Uye kana izvo zvisingaite zvakashata zvakakwana, kukanganisa panguva yekufamba kwepamusoro kunokusiya wakaomeswa mupfungwa. Saka zvakanyanya, iwe unotanga rwendo wakasimbiswa, uye pakupedzisira, iwe uri goko remunhu.
Saka nei vanhu vachizviita? Nei vachida kuzvikanda munyonganyonga iyi? Ndinofunga pamusoro peizvi pese pandinorovererwa mukona, ndichinetseka kana makumbo angu achazomboshanda zvakare. Uye ipapo ndinozviona-nguva iyo mumwe munhu pakupedzisira anosvika kumba. Kumbundirwa, kuseka, chikafu. Zvakaita sekuti hapana kutambura kwakaitika. Kwenguva pfupi iyoyo, zvese zvakafanira.
Zvinenge zvakaita sekufamba kweLunar New Year ikuyedza kusinganzwisisike kuona kuti vanhu vanoshingirira sei nekuda kwerudo. Uye gore negore, vanhu vanokunda bvunzo. Kashoma. Asi vanopfuura. Nokuti pakuguma kwezvose, pane mhuri. Uye izvo, sezviri pachena, zvakakosha zvese-kunyangwe kumira muhapwa yemumwe munhu kwemaawa masere.
iyo yepasi pe psychology yekuti sei tichiri kuita izvi
Kuseri kwetikiti rega rechitima uye traffic jam inyaya yemunhu. Tsvagiridzo inotsigira ichi chinotungamirwa nevanhu chiitiko, kunyanya kana zvasvika pakufamba kunokurudzirwa nekubatana, basa, uye rudo.
Ongororo ya2013 muInternational Journal of Sociology 4 inoratidza kuti vanopfuura 300 miriyoni vashandi vanobva kune dzimwe nyika muChina vanoita nzendo dzakaoma kuti vabatane nemhuri dzavo panguva ino yezororo.
Kunyangwe zvipingamupinyi zvekugadzirisa uye kurasikirwa kwemuviri, vashandi ava vanokurudzirwa nepfungwa yakadzama yekusungirwa kwetsika uye kubatana kwepfungwa. Tsvagiridzo iyi inotsikirira kuti kusunda kwemunhu kuchengetedza zvisungo zvemhuri kunowanzopfuura kufunga kunoshanda, zvichiratidza kuti rwendo hachisi chiitiko chemuviri chete asi nhamburiko yemanzwiro yakadzika muzvisungo zvetsika.
Asi ndezvipi zvisungo zvetsika, kunyanya?
Tsika netsika dzechivanhu chinhu chikuru.
Tsika dzechiConfucian. Filial huMwari, vanozvidana, iyo inongova nzira yakashata yekureva "mhuri yekutanga, iwe uri mairi kana kwete." Yang naLin vakataura nezvazvo muAsia Journal yeSocial Psychology muna 2015, zvichiratidza kuti izvi hazvina kungogadzirwa. Chinhu.
Zvikurukuru, chiConfucius chiri pamusoro pokuremekedza vabereki vako namadzitateguru nemhaka yokuti, sezviri pachena, haisati iri fungidzirowo zvayo—inosungirwa. Saka, hausi kungofadza Mbuya; uri kuzadzisa chisungo chetsika. Hapana kumanikidza, zvakadaro.
Filial goety—inozivikanwawo se<em> xiào , iyo inonzwika sokuhwihwidza—inonyanya kukoshesa kukudza mhuri yako, kunyanya vabereki vako. Hakusi kungoti “thanks” kana kuvafonera kamwe pavhiki; ndicho chinhu chose che "vaise pekutanga", kunyangwe zvichireva kutora nzendo refu, dzinosiririsa kuti ungogara muimba yavo yekutandarira uye kunzwa nezvekuti iwe hausati wabudirira sei semuzukuru wako.
Asi zvinopfuura izvozvo. Confucianism, iyo yakafanana nebhuku rekare rekuzvibatsira asi renzanga dzose, rinoenderera mberi pamusoro pekugarisana kwevanhu. Izvi zvinoreva kuziva paumire mumhuri uchipenengura—sehuku, asi isinganakidze—uye kuita zvakanakira boka rose, kunyange kana zvichikurwadza.
Saka kana vanhu vachifamba nenyika kune mazororo kana kudya kwemhuri, havasi kungove vakanaka-vari kutevera bhuku remitemo rinoti, "Ita, nokuti zvinotarisirwa, uye nokuti amai vako vachakupa mhosva-kukuendesa zvachose kana iwe usadaro."
Iri rese "basa remhuri" rakadzika midzi muEast neSoutheast Asia tsika zvekuti vanhu vanozoshandisa mari yakawanda nemaawa mutraffic kuti vangoenda kuLunar New Year kana Tết. Inyaya yekuremekedza vakuru vako nemadzisekuru ako, kana wafunga nezvazvo, ingori nzira yakadzama yekuti, "Tiri kuita izvi nekuti ambuya vangatishungurudza neimwe nzira."
Zvamazvirokwazvo, hakuna rwendo rukuru rwokuyera runopedzwa pasina simba rekare uye risingadzivisiki riri mhaka yaamai.
Chidzidzo che2018 muJournal of Family Psychology -nekuti sezviri pachena, ndiko kwainoenda vanhu kunodzidza nezvaamai-vakawana kuti mhosva yaamai inokwirisa mutsika umo zvisungo zvemhuri zvakanyanya. 5 Zvikurukuru, mune mamwe mativi enyika, kuva nemhaka hakusati kuchingovawo zvako kunzwa; mararamire.
Tora Tết, semuenzaniso. Ipapo ndipo apo vana vanoerekana varangarira vanaamai vavo varipo uye vanonzwa ichi chishuvo chinoshungurudza chekutsungirira maawa emhirizhonga yekufamba kuti vangozviratidza.
Sei? Nekuti imwe nzira iri kushungurudzwa nemweya wekuti "Sei usina kuuya kumba?" kweupenyu hwavo hwose. Kanganwa marongedzero asina kunaka kana kuti mabhazi akazara—hapana chinhu chinotyisa kupfuura kugomera kwakaodzwa mwoyo kwaamai vakanga vachibika zuva rose.
Mhosva - kwete rudo, kwete ruremekedzo, asi yakachena, isina kucheneswa mhosva - chimwe chezvikuru zvinokurudzira kuti vanhu vatambure kuburikidza nezvitima zvakawandisa uye jam dzemumigwagwa izvo zvinoita kuti Dante's Inferno iite senge spa yezuva. Unogona kusvika uchiita sewabva kukambaira uchibuda mudenderedzwa repfumbamwe regehena mushure merwendo rwemaawa gumi nemana, uye amai vako vachangovhura gonhi voti, “Nei kunonoka? Wakanganwa kumuka makuseni?"
Asi izvi hazvisi zvechivanhu chete kana kuzivikanwa kana kuzviratidza kuti ambuya varege kukuisa chituko. Aiwa, izvi ndezvechokwadi chekupedzisira chevanhu: hapana simba mune zvakasikwa — kana simba rinokwevera zvinhu pasi kana kuti Large Hadron Collider — rinogona kukunda mhosva yaamai.
Zvino, usati watanga kupomera amai vako mhosva yekusingaperi kutenderera kwemhosva uye kukwira mabhazi daro refu, usadaro. Haasi kungova nemhosva-kukugumbura kuti unakirwe. Iye chikamu chehurongwa hukuru, hurongwa hwetsika, apo munhu wese - vanaamai, vanababa, vana, kunyangwe iyo imwe babamunini vasinganzwisisike - vane basa rekuita. Zvakafanana nemutambo wakaoma webhodhi apo pasina anoverenga mirairo asi munhu wese achiri kuziva mafambiro avo.
Pakupedzisira, hazvisi izvo zvaanotarisira-usapomera amai nokuti kutanga, haakodzeri, uye chechipiri, chibvumirano chisingatauriki chemunhu wose kuchengetedza tsika, uye chechitatu, vakadzi vanokudya iwe uri mupenyu.
Uye chokwadi, zvinonetesa, asi ndizvo zvinochengeta mhuri, uye nzanga, kubva pakuparara zvachose. Saka nguva inotevera yaunenge wakanamatira mumugwagwa uchifunga nezvechiso chaamai vako chakaodzwa mwoyo, yeuka: hausi kungotsungirira nyonganyonga; uri kuchengetedza hurongwa hwetsika. Kunge.
kuti zvinhu zvose zviri kuchinja sei, asi zvishoma nezvishoma
Asi zvinofanira kuva nenzira iyi here? Sezvinei, kudhumhana kwevanhu uku kwegore negore kunonyatsoda kunzwa senge chinoitika chesardine chiri kurovera mugaba remarata here? Zvakadini kana tikaita kuti chinhu chose chive chishoma... zvakanaka, zvinosiririsa?
Saka, kutanga, heino twist hapana akaona ichiuya-paChunyun, vanhu vakuru muChina vakatanga chinhu ichi chinonzi "reverse travel." Maererano neChina Daily , pane kuti vamirire vana vavo kuti vadzoke kumba, shasha idzi dzakura dzinorongedza mabhegi adzo dzichienda kumaguta kunoshanda vana vavo.
Zvakaita sekunge vafunga pamwe chete, "Nei tichifanira kugara kumba tichibika dumplings isu tichigona kurovera pafuton yako uye kunyunyuta nezvemhepo yemuguta panzvimbo?"
Inopenya, chaizvo. Vanodzivirira mhirizhonga yekufamba kumaruwa uye vanowana chigaro chemberi kune hupenyu hwemudhorobha hunonetsa hwevana vavo. Uyezve, vanounza zvekudya zvekumba, zvinova chinhu chakanakisa munyika. Kudzokera shure: kwakafanana nekufamba nguva dzose, asi nedivi rekutadza kwevabereki uye sutukesi yakazara netofu yakaviriswa.
Zvakare, zvivakwa, nekuti sezviri pachena, zvese zvivakwa mazuva ano. Chitima chinomhanya-mhanya munzvimbo dzakaita seChina, Vietnam, neSouth Korea yatoonekwa seyekupedzisira kuchinjika kweinjiniya yemazuva ano.
Uye zvakadaro, panguva yeGore Idzva reLunar, kunyangwe izvi zvinoshamisa zvinoshamisa zvetekinoroji zvakaderedzwa kusvika zvakaenzana nemotokari yeclown. Mhinduro yacho? Zvitima zvakawanda. More tracks. Injiniya yakangwara inokwanisa kubata "huwandu hwenyika yese, zvese kamwechete" mamiriro. Fungidzira nyika iyo zvitima zvinouya kakawanda zvokuti hautombofaniri kutarisa purogiramu. Iwe unongoratidzira, kwira murunyararo, uye haufanirwe kuburitsa mumwe munhu kubva munzvimbo yako wega. Chimurenga.
Asi zvitima chete hazvitiponese. Aiwa kwete. Tichada kukwidziridzwa kuhurongwa hwese — ndege, mabhazi, migwagwa mikuru. Mabasa. Kufanana neimwe mhando yeMarvel-style yekufambisa timu-up. Chinangwa chacho? Kushandura kutama uku kubva kune gore negore Hunger Games audition kuita chimwe chinhu chingave, ndingazvitaura, kunakidzwa. Unoziva kwaunosvika kwaunoenda uchiita kunge munhu kwete kunge warwa nebere musuitcase.
Zvakadaro, kunyangwe isu takavaka mashiripiti ekufonera network mangwana, iwe unenge uine "induced kudiwa chiitiko." Ndiyo nzira yekutaura: "Kana iwe ukavaka, vachauya ... uye vacharamba vakazarisa." Vanhu, eh?
Saka pamwe isu tinofanirawo kufunga patsva kana chikamu chemhirizhonga iyi. Ko kana vanhu vasina kufamba vese panguva imwe chete? Kufanana, fungidzira mazororo anokatyamadza. Zvikoro nenzvimbo dzebasa zvaigona kuchinjana, semutsetse wakanaka. Zvingave seGore Idzva reLunar, asi rakapararira - mhirizhonga shoma, kurwa kwechitima kushoma, uye pamwe mukana wekugara pasi. Radical.
Uye zvakare kune tekinoroji. Chokwadi, tave neakanakisa maapuro izvozvi ekuhodha matikiti uye kunonoka kwekutevera, asi haana kukwana. Ko kana algorithms ikaita zvakanaka zvekuti vaigona kufanotaura kuti ndiani ari kuenda kupi uye rinhi? Kunge imwe mhando ye psychic njanji kuronga. Iwe unonyatsoziva kuti ndechipi chitima chekukwira, uye chaisazonzwa sekutamba Tetris nemukwende wako.
Asi ngatiwane kuvepo kwesekondi: kutama uku kunenge kuri nezvei chaizvo? Ndiwo mamaira here? Zvitima zvakamanikana? Zvikafu zvinomutsa mubvunzo? Kwete. Inyaya yemhuri. Tradition. Connection. Ndezvekugara nevadikani vako amai vako vachingotaura zvehasha nezvesarudzo dzehupenyu hwako.
Zvakadaro, zvizvarwa zvidiki zviri kubvunza mubvunzo mukuru: kubatana kwemhuri kunoda kusanganisa rwendo rwunopwanya mweya here? Hatina kukwanisa here, munoziva, kugadzirisa ? Kuda, kusangana pakati? Kana kusarudza nzvimbo itsva yezororo?
Uye kune avo vasingakwanise kuita rwendo, pane nguva dzose tech. Munguva yedenda, takaratidza kuti kuungana chaiko kunoshanda-mhando. Mapuratifomu akaita seZoom neWeChat aive akafanana nekuisa tsika mublender uye kuinwa nesadza. Haina kunaka, asi yakaita basa.
Saka, heino mufananidzo mukuru: kushandura iyo Lunar New Year kutama hakusi kwekungoita kuti zvive nyore. Ndezvekuchengeta moyo waro uchicheka nhamo. Zvitima zviri nani, zvirongwa zvine hungwaru, uye tsika itsva zvinogona kushandura sekisi yegore rino kuita chimwe chinhu chisingangoshiviriri, asi chinonakidza. Anopenga, handiti? Asi zvakakodzera kupfura.
Hechino chinhu: zvisinei kuti hupenyu hwemhando yepamusoro hunosvika sei nemidziyo yayo yese uye maapplication, pane chinhu chimwe chete icho tekinoroji haigone kukunda-chinoshamisa, chisingadzivisiki chinokwevera chepamba. Zvakafanana negomba dema asi rine nyeredzi shoma uye zvakanyanya kunetsa kutaura kudiki.
Vazhinji, regai nditi ruzhinji rwevanhu vachiri kukoshesa kusanganazve mu-munhu. Sei? Nekuti zvimwe zvinhu hazvigone kuitwa neZoom.
Sekunzwa mhamha vako vachikuudza kuti wawedzera uremu kurarama uye muHD . Kana kuita madhiri nevanin'ina vako muchinyeya kuti muchato wehama ipi uri pamatombo. Kana kuti uchipinda muimba yako yekurara yehudiki wobva waona kuti yakadzoserwa munzvimbo yekuchengetera yemidziyo yekurovedzera yakatyoka. Chiiko naamai uye kuchinja kamuri yako kuita kabati kechipiri iwe wabuda kunze?
Hazvina mhosva kuti nyika yachinja sei, vanhu vachiri kunzwa kuda kuenda kumusha. Zvakafanana neimwe mhando yekare homing beacon yakanamatira muDNA yedu. Hazvishamisi kuti rwiyo rwese rweVietnamese Lunar New Year runogara rwuine izwi rekuti: Về nhà (Huya kumba). 6
Ndiyo beacon inotanga kurira: Dzokera shure. Gara mumugwagwa. Idya zvakanyanya. Dzokorora gore rinouya.
Itsika. Tsika yakasindimara, isingazununguki. Hazvinei kuti unodzungaira kure zvakadii kana kuti unofunga kuti watama zvakadii, kumba kunogara kuchitsvaga nzira yekukudzosera mukati. Zvakaita semagineti anonamira zvakanyanya, asi iyo inokunetsa pamusoro pekuti pauchazogadzikana.
Saka hechino chinhu pamusoro pekutama kweLunar New Year: injodzi yakazara. Kunopisa, kudikitira, kwakazara, uye zvakadaro, neimwe nzira, yakanaka zvisingaite — semufananidzo weJackson Pollock wakagadzirwa nematikiti echitima uye zviroto zvakapwanyika. Uku kusanganisa kusinganzwisisike kwetsika dzechinyakare, nyonganyonga yemazuva ano, uye kutsunga kwemunhu kutambura kuburikidza nazvo zvese.
Gore negore, mabhiriyoni evanhu anonyoresa nokudisa uku kupenga. Vanotsungirira kukwidzwa kwemitengo, kuneta, uye rudzi rwekusagadzikana kwemuviri izvo zvinokuita kuti ubvunze kuti sei zvigaro mumabhazi zvidiki zvakadaro. Uye nei? Kungosvika kumba. Izvi zvinokatyamadza, tichifunga kuti vanhu vazhinji havatomboda kufamba kuenda kukicheni hafu yenguva.
Funga nezvazvo: zviteshi zvechitima zvakawandisa munyika, uye tinongozvikanda mazviri sekunge tiri kuongorora imwe dystopian kupona show. Uye neimwe nzira, zvese izvo kusundidzira nekudikitira uye kumira kwemaawa kunoita kuti pakupedzisira usvike kumba unzwe sekuhwina menduru yeOlympic-kunze kwechinzvimbo chegoridhe, mubairo wako ndiamai vako vachikubvunza kuti sei usina kufona kakawanda.
Kudai vatorwa vaizviona, vaizovhiringidzika. Vanoita sekuti, "Sei mhuka idzi dzichizvirovera mumagaba emavhiri kuti dzingopopotera nevakuru vadzo?" Uye kutaura chokwadi, vangave vaine pfungwa. Zvakafanana nokumwe kutama kukuru kwechisiko asi pasina kunaka kwehanzi dzinobhururuka dzakaita. Pane kudaro, vanhu vanosungirirana nzvimbo mumotokari yechitima yakapisa.
Saka, heino mubvunzo chaiwo: rwendo rwako rweTết rwakamira sei? Kwakanga kuri kukwirwa nemhepo here, kana zvimwe senge gamba rekutsvaga rinosanganisira kunonoka, kudhura zvakanyanya, uye pamwe kurwira chigaro chekupedzisira? Donhedza nyaya dzako mumashoko-ngatigoverane dzimwe ngano dzehondo kubva kumitsetse yechunyun chaos. Ndiani anoda bhaisikopo re blockbuster isu tine iyi?
Verenga chinyorwa chepakutanga, "mabhiriyoni anofamba achienda kumusha kwegore idzva, achitarisira kubvunzwa kuti sei vasina kuroora" kuti uwane mamwe mashoko emuzasi uye kudyidzana zvakananga nemunyori.