I-Career yakho Ayikho I-Personality yakho. I-Sorry.

(Ukuba ubomi uqhuba kwi-face yakho)

Ngaba uyazi le ndingathanda ebomvu xa kukho into ebomvu kwaye ngoko ke ungenza ukuba ngubani nawe?

Yeah – kuye.

iminyaka emininzi, idilesi yamUkucingaiimveliso zethu

Yinto yayo yayo yayo yayo yayo yayo yayo yayo yayo yayo yayo yayo yayo yayo yayo yayo yayo yayo yayo yayo yayo.

Ukusuka kwakhona.

Xa ndidlulanga, hhayi nje ndidlulanga umsebenzi - ndidlulanga.

No title. No day-to-day structure. No adrenaline ukususela iingxaki.

Ukungcweliswa kuphela, kunye nesisombululo esebenzayo emzimbeni wabhala:

“Ngoko ke... Yintoni?”

Kwaye ngexesha ndingathanda into eyayibandakanya indlela ndingathanda umntu ngexesha elide:

Identity diversification.(Ndiya, kubonakala njengoko into evela kumadokhumenti yakho yebhizinisi. Kodwa ufunde nam.)

What the Hell Is Identity Diversification?

Yintoni oku kuthetha:

Don’t bet your entire sense of self on one thing.

Xa zonke iimvakalelo zakho ze-identity zihlanganisa kwikhosini elinye - umsebenzi yakho, ubumnandi yakho, umdla wakho njengomdla, okanye i-six-pack yakho - kufuneka nje ukuchitha ukuba uqhagamshelane.

Izixhobo ezininzi. Izixhobo ezincinane.

Umntu omnqweno?

ZifumanekaUkucingaIipileli ze-identity – ngoko ke xa umntu uqhuba, yonke into akuyona.

Think of It Like This:

Ubomi yakho yintlobo.

Yonke umnxeba - umnxeba, umbhali, umbhali, umnxeba, umnxeba, umnxeba, nayiphi na into - i-been.

I-table with one leg? Wobbly like hell. I-table with five? Ungayithanda i-ball ye-bowling kwaye iya kuba.

Yinto yinto.

How to Build More Legs (Without Losing Your Mind)

Step 1: Audit Your Identity

Nceda uxhomekeke:

“If I stopped doing what I do today, who would I be tomorrow?

"Ukuba impendulo i-" Ngaba ndingathanda, "ukwamkelwa. Ngaba akuyona nje. Kwaye ixesha ukuvelisa.

Step 2: Follow the Curiosity

Yenza le mfuneko:

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• Yintoni iingcamango ngaphandle kokusebenza?
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• Yintoni i-energizer? Yintoni i-energizer? Yintoni i-energizer?
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• Yintoni ndingathanda ukuba ndingathanda kodwa ndingathanda?
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• Yintoni iimpawu ndithanda ukuba ndithande (ukuba kuphela kwi-LinkedIn)?
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• Yintoni iinkalo zithembisa ukuba ndingathanda?
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Emva koko, isebenzaYintoniingxoxo

Fumana umxholo. Fumana umxholo. Volunteer. Yenza into.

Ngaba unako. Akukho ngenxa yentlawulo. Akukho ngenxa yentlawulo. Kwaye nje ngenxa yintlawuloYintoni

Step 3: Protect Your Identity from Burnout

Yinto akuyona ukwenzangaphezulu

Kwimeko yokwenza into enikezela isikhwama yakho kunokuba ukutya.

Ngaba ungenza i-15 iibhodi ezintsha. UngenzaUkucingaiinkcukacha

Ngaba ufuna iziganeko ezininzi. UfunaUkucingaUkuxhaswa

Qhagamshelana. Qhagamshelana. Qhagamshelana.

A Quick Reality Check

Uya kuba ukuphazamiseka.

Ingaba uya kuba ndingathanda ukuba "ukutshintshela ixesha.

"Ngaba uya kubona ukuba kunzima.

Uyazi, "Yintoni ingxaki ukuba ngaba ndingathanda imali kwakhona?"

Yinto ingxaki:

Ngaba ukwakha i-version ye-imeyile enokufutshane xa i-part of your life yenza i-nucleed.

Yintoni i-Luxe. Yintoni i-Insurance.

Final Thought

I-Identity yakho kufuneka yintoni i-portfolio ephilayo.

Ukuvuthwa. Ukuvuthwa.

Ukukhusela ngokufanelekileyo kwi-volatility.

Ngenxa yokuba inkonzo yakho ayidlulanga.

I six-pack yakho ayikho.

Kwiminyaka emininzi, izinto ezidumileyo ziyafumaneka.

Yintoni unayo?

Ngaba unako ukuxhaswa kwinto eyodwa.

Kwakhona kufunekaNgaphezulu

Kwixesha elandelayo,

Ukucinga